We’re gamers in our forties, fifties, sixties, and beyond who understand that work deadlines, family obligations, and life sometimes come before gaming. That’s not just okay—it’s expected.
What makes us special? We actually mean it when we say casual. No pressure to race to max level. No guilt if you log in once a week. No drama about gear scores or DPS metres. Just good people playing games together and having a laugh while doing it.
We’ve been doing this since 8 April 2016, starting in Black Desert Online, and we’re still here because we focus on what matters: the community, not the content treadmill. New members are always welcome, whether you’re just starting your MMORPG journey or you’ve been gaming since before the internet was a thing.
So You Want To Join? Here’s What Happens
Click the Apply to Join button, fill out the application, and tell us a bit about yourself and your gaming history. Our officers review applications within 24-48 hours.
Get approved? We’ll send you login credentials for the website and a warm welcome to the community. Check your spam folder if you don’t see our email—automated emails have a habit of ending up there for reasons nobody fully understands.
Log into the website to access the member area, then head to our forums where you’ll find everything you need: IRC server details, Mumble voice server information, in-game invite instructions, and guides on how to use our voice chat. Check out The Grumpy Gamer Gazette to see what everyone’s been up to, and make yourself at home.
We’re casual about gaming, but we do expect basic human decency. No bigotry, no excessive drama, no treating people like NPCs. Be respectful, be yourself, and you’ll fit right in. Welcome home.